Do you love your wife, husband, partner because you need them? Or, do you need them because you love them? This is something you need to think about. Have you ever watched Divorce Court? Judge Toler sometimes gives couples a questionaire to fill out before the show, or sometimes she gives each person sixty seconds to explain what they like and love most about their mate.
It is interesting to listen to the responses, and thought-provoking too. You'll hear things like, he's a hard worker and good provider, or she cooks and cleans my cloths. The judge will often question these reasons and ask what it is about the "person" that they love and many couples are stumped and simply repeat more things their mate does for them.
So, again I ask you do you love your mate because you need them or need them because you love them?
There is a difference, right.